Like an old saying "change is inevitable!".

   Change is a constant force in life and  beyond, It happens spontaneously or otherwise.  One can put change has good and bad sometimes because one man's meat is another man's poison, I could benefit from a change that might be of disadvantage to you,so it's only good or bad from your  own point of view.

   I'll be laying emphasis on the changes in the characteristics or behaviors of humans towards one another (why people change in relationships).

Relationships between humans could  get better or worse (change)over time depending on circumstances the relationship faces . People mostly change because  they chose to or they are forced to.  Here are some of the conditions  that could make people change behaviors in relationshipsa



CHANGE IN FINANCIAL STATUS 

Rich means financially strong and being poor means otherwise. Being rich could make you lavish,you would end up spending on what you are not supposed to spend on . So it's in two ways , it could be a jealous friend changing his or her attitude , or the friend who got financially inclined or declined changing behaviors . (Using friends has a case study of relationships ).

This is normal actually, when a person's financial status changes  there's a tendency for the person's behavior to change. It's part of our characteristics as humans, likewise the ability to think intelligently and express our emotions verbally, you should be able to caution the other party like a good friend . If the other person won't yield to warnings it's safe to cut off from them if the change is of negative impact on you.

IRRELEVANCE

    Most people have the habit of throwing things away when it's of no use to them or they aren't using it currently, I also do this too 😔 but I'm working on it ,Trust me there would be a day you would need it most and you won't find it.
This is also applicable to  relationships between humans. When someone has served a purpose they ought to serve  in a relationship and they are of no use at the moment , there is a tendency the relationship begins to fade away.
If something or someone was useful pls don't just put them away (don't change what the relationship is all about )when they can't offer anything just yet . Check up on them from time to time if need be, you never know, they might a stepping stone to achieve a goal in the nearest future.
    

TIRED OF THE RELATIONSHIP

    This  is an obvious behavior. You would always notice it , it can't be hidden for long . It could be because of the point metioned up there or some other reasons like being a burden to bear. This could lead to maltreatment and/or denial.
    When this behavior is noticed if you can move on pls do , if you can't , sit the other person and talk to them about the changes they want from you, and if it's you getting tired of the relationship make it known to other person.

BEING HURT EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY

    Hurting someone physically or emotionally , knowingly or unknowingly could cause a tremendous amount of change in the other person's behavior towards you negatively. Especially if it's

Betrayal
Molestation
unnecessarily beating or bullying

This usually hurt bad and leaves a parmanent scar in the memories or on the body of the victim and usually makes the victim suicidal . Sometimes people who hurts other people dont know that they are hurting someone else, you have to make it known to them  that you aren't comfortable or you are  hurt ,and some people don't give a damn, they would hurt you the more you complain. You shouldn't habour them.

DISTANCE

      Long distance relationships (LDRs) include relationships between people who are geographically distant. Relationships might face issues with managing physical intimacy between them as meeting each other frequently may not be possible.Lack of Communication is one of the most common problems in a long distance relationship. A good relationship is based on how good you both communicate.
  Though technologies has eliminated the distance between people , once the medium is not used  properly jealousy could spring up because of low communications the bond could weaken, there might be distractions, there's are done of the things that induce changes in a relationship.

BY CHOICE

   Change could be by choice. Choice is an option, when a person changes by choice  it only shows that there  is an alternative or something motivating them to change their behaviors either positively or negatively .

You should respect their decisions , most especially when the other person have given reasons for the changes you have seen

INFLUENCE

Influence is a game changer ,it creates an internal shift in a person's mindset . Every one is prone to be changed by influence in one way or the other .
Its either  bad or good depending on the source and One of the  major source of influence on humans  is the internet and his /her environment .


  Change is inevitable in all aspects of life, it's not possible to hold on to everyone that has been useful to you and that's just life. We would meet some people who would initially be something special to you and then change because of the reasons why people change and there would be people who would come in your life has normal people and become special later.

   That's all I would be highlighting on the reasons why people change in a relationship . Thank you for reading this message. please share to your friends and family and don't forget to allow notifications if you haven't.