PORNOGRAPHY

 PORNOGRAPHY, also known as porn is any content that contains anything related to sex for the purpose of sexual arousement. Pornography can come  in any form such has books , videos, pictures, animation and a lot more.  XXX is usually used to denote that a content contains pornography.
Cultures, Religions and some other groups in our society  consider pornography has immoral , addictive and harmful to humans most especially humans below the age of 18 years.

ADDICTION
       
     It's said to be a disorder that makes humans perform an action compulsively even when it's know that the action has a bad effect  , addictions presents it's addict with some amount of pleasure  and adverse consequences . A very good example "a student who gambles with his or her feeding allowance everytime at every given opportunity "believing that at a one point there's going to be a jackpot.
The genesis of addictions happens mostly with trials. A person could be curious and just give smoking a trial to see what smokers derive from it , boom!! he/she could be caught in the web.


Pornography addiction

   This is only one out of the thousands of things humans could get addicted to. Pornography addiction is a drive to engage in sexual activities or inducing sexual arousement using w sexual contents even when it has negative impact on physical, mental , financial well-being.
     
Negative effects of pornography

  Pornography is also associated with unsafe sexual health practices such as not using condoms and unsafe anal and vaginal sex.

Pornography is a visual misinterpretation of sex which changes ones concept about sexual life negatively.

Pornography affects people’s emotional lives. Married men who are involved in pornography feel less satisfied with their marital sexual relations and less emotionally attached to their wives. Women married to men with a pornography addiction report feelings of betrayal, mistrust, and anger.

Pornography is addictive, the pleasure it gives to it's viewers would make them neglect the disadvantages, which could later cause regrets in their life.

HOW TO STAY AWAY FROM PORNOGRAPHY 


        Do you feel like you are stuck and might never get out of it ? You have talked yourself not going   back to  pornography, but no, you still end up going back there .
         Well not to worry I'll be dishing out some tricks in this lesson.
        One way or the other everyone has his or her own addictions, but   this pornography addiction is another case of its own  . It comes with guilt , gives you higher libido which could lead to rape or you giving yourself out for sex to any random person who is ready to help with the pleasure and pornography is a sure ticket to masturbation which is another addiction on it's own .

without wasting much of your time I'll move to  the tricks one can use to stop their addiction

1. Vpn
 


    Yes VPN , I'm very sure you must have heard of that before now . 

  VPN ( VIRTUAL PRIVATE NETWORK) . The VPN changes the server  which your phone is connected to the selected server of any country you wish to connect to.There are some countries where pornography is illegal . Countries like afghanistan ,iraq ,korea e.t.c . You can check for more on the internet .

    Now this is where VPN comes in handy, using a server from a country were pornography is restricted would reduce the temptations of having to enter a porn website. download a vpn that has any of this countries in it and connect , preferably afghanistan . Your browser won't be able to connect to the PORN web without you getting some annoying request to fill to make sure are 18 years and above.  Pls go to your operating system store  to download now!!


2. Sleep

          This method is best at night or day. If  you are about to watch or read anything pornographic is because you are home and alone , sleeping or taking a nap would be a very good option for you at that period, rest your brain , don't be bothered about it  . You would enjoy your sleep and even feel much better about it .
Best with your phone off 😊

3. PRAYER
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    This is a very effective way to stop porn.
You have to go closer to him and pray to your creator, and you would feel alot of guilt entering the pornography website or reading whatever content that's stimulate unnecessary sexual desires, which might be able to stop you from going further  . Spend your time with who you believe  created you  , instead of those people on screen doing nasty things for money.
After you are done with this please sleep and have good dreams 😊.


    4.WHAT IF YOU WERE CAUGHT


  •      By your parents , that's alot of trouble 
  •  By your children, that's bad parenting 
  •      By someone who looks upto you, that's alot of disgrace .

Although that's the whole concept of ADDICTION , not being able stop with an action even though it has an adverse effect on you.
   You should always think of the consequences involved and it's effect on other people that really love you for whom you are. There are actually way more  consequences than pleasure gotten.


5. YOU HAVE TO BE CONSCIOUS



Consciousness, at its simplest, is sentience or awareness of internal and external existence, you have to be aware and say no to feeding your eyes with pornographic contents.
      Snap out of it !!!!!!
      Snap out of it !!!!!!!!
That moment you feel like watching , snap out of it and be in total control of your mind.
Be consious get yourself back and talk to yourself. You are to control your mind and not your mind controlling you . It's hard but you just have to be in control . 


Reiterate
        This means to perform an action over and over again. You can come back to this blog to read and re-read what the blog has given to you has a solution to starting away from pornography in order not to forget what you have to do at any point in time.
Reiterating this lesson should make the  blog post stuck in your head and available for use at any time.



Extra advice:

Everything in life is all about habit. And to stop a particular habit, you need to stop as you started invariably. For example, the time you started watching porn you started gradually, from once in a week to once daily to the extent of watching porn as a movie now. You need to start watching it in decreasing pattern and definitely you will stop it. Most importantly, see porn as punishing yourself with another person's enjoyment, you will start to see it valueless and you start to stop it gradually. Thank you.

I sincerely hope these points I have listed helps you alot 

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